“Men, What Are Some Unwritten Rules We Have?” (20 Answers)

Unwritten rules cover pretty much every aspect of one’s life: work, friends, family, romantic relationships, public spaces, etc. An unspoken rule, law, or agreement is a behavioral principle that has not been formally or officially established but is accepted and followed by many. Think of a ‘bro code’ or a ‘girl code.’ Yet, in this post, we will focus solely on the laws of manhood and which unwritten rules men should follow for good.

An online user turned to the men of Reddit to ask, “what are some unwritten rules we have?” In one of the most famous online communities, Ask Reddit, the question received plenty of attention and over 4.4K upvotes. Many lads were willing to share the unspoken rules every gentleman should follow. Have anything to add to the list? Make sure to leave a comment!

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#1 Don’t Make Fun Of A Man’s Career

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Don’t poke fun at the way a man makes his income.

#2 If Your Pal Buys You A Beer, You’re Responsible For The Next Round

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If a friend buys you a drink you don’t pay it back you just buy the next round

#3 Your Friend Is The King Of Jokes If His Crush Is Around

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When your friend’s crush is around, he is the funniest in the group

#4 You Don’t Need To Talk, You Can Just Nod

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*up nod* What’s up?

*down nod* you have my respect

*right nod* we need to chat

*left nod* come check this out.

#5 Your Pal’s Sister Is Like Your Own

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If your boys’ sister is in trouble, protect her like your own.

#6 A Bathroom With 5 Urinals Means A Bathroom With 3 Urinals

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If a bathroom has 5 urinals, it only has 3 urinals.

#7 Always Inspect The Stairs When Walking Behind A Woman

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When walking upstairs behind a woman, the stairs instantly become the most interesting thing.

“Hmmm, these stairs are really made out of stairs huh”

#8 Don’t Ever Put A Friend Down Whenever A Girl Is Around

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don’t “jokingly” put down your friends whenever a girl is around just so you can seem like some kinda alphachad, especially if they like the girl

#9 Don’t Ever Hit A Man In The Balls

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Don’t hit a man in the balls. Just don’t.

#10 A Grunt And A Nod Is An Acceptable Conversation

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A grunt and a nod is an entirely acceptable conversation.

#11 “That’s Not Going Anywhere” Is Essential When You’re Strapping Down A Strap

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When you’re strapping down a strap, you must say “that’s not going anywhere” or you will lose everything on the trailer

#12 You Can Have A Beer, But Not If It’s The Last One

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You can have a beer. But not if it’s the last one.

Don’t roast a man in front of their kid.

#13 Toilet Etiquette

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It’s is essential that we pee away the small bit of s**t on the side of the toilet bowl.

#14 You Have To Stand Next To Your Friend When He’s Cooking On The BBQ

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Whenever your friend is cooking on the bbq, you have to stand next to him and talk about how amazing this food is gonna be

#15 Beer And Pizza Is An Acceptable Payment For Helping A Friend Out

Beer And Pizza Is An Acceptable Payment For Helping A Friend Out

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Beer and pizza/BBQ is acceptable payment for helping another man work on his house or vehicle.

#16 Always Buy Toilet Paper

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For those that live with women: No matter what you are going to the grocery store for, just buy toilet paper.

#17 BBQ Tongs Must Be Clicked A Couple Of Times Before Usage

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A big bag of soil, dry dog food, or rice must be slapped.

Tongs for BBQ must be clicked 2-3 times before using them.

#18 A Secret Technique That’ll Make A Man’s Life Easier

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When our balls stick to our thigh we have to take a big step to unstick them

#19 Never Touch Another Man’s Fries

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Never touch another man’s fries.

#20 Urinal Rules

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I’m gonna add another urinal rule.

While you’re peeing you’re allowed to fart uninhibited without acknowledgment and we won’t say s**t.

But, once you’ve zipped up and head to the sink, that window has closed.

You can still fart but, you can’t just act like it didn’t happen.

20 People Share The Frugal “Hack” That Made The Most Difference In Their Lives

Cryptocurrency is not doing too great, UK inflation hits a 40-year high, one kilogram of cherries costs 35€, real estate prices have sky-rocketed, and have you seen the petrol prices? The times are tough, man.

It’s time to start saving up, like seriously. No more “next month.” Prepare that dinner at home tonight. But on a serious note, everything gets more expensive each day, and, unfortunately, the numbers on paychecks don’t grow at the same rate as prices do.

Recently, a Reddit user asked fellow members of the Frugal community to share “The most frugal hack you’ve discovered that made the most difference,” and folks delivered. Look at some of the money-saving tips people have shared that made the most dent in their life. Do you use any of these tips? Perhaps you have more ‘frugal’ tips to add to the list?

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It’s not a hack of any sorts, but learning how to cook really well has been my best money saver. I almost never want to go out, because I can generally cook better food at home.

Today’s dinner (egg roll in a bowl made with marinaded chicken thighs) came out to less than $2 per portion and was within my veggie-heavy diet.


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Hang drying clothes helps them last longer


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Being environmentally conscious. You’d be surprised with how much overlap there is between frugal and sustainable living. It’s the mindset more than anything else that cuts down my expenses.
I buy second hand. Catch public transport. Gone vegetarian. Bring my own package free snacks. Learned to repair clothes. Compost to feed the garden that feeds me. I use reusable hygiene products (cups and safety razors). I use tea towels instead of paper towels. I use soap bars rather than liquid soaps that come in plastic containers (they last waaay longer). I buy quality clothes/electronics that last longer. I use my library rather than buying physical books. And most importantly, I’ve stopped buying plastic garbage I don’t need.


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Put stuff in a virtual cart. Leave it. Mull it over for a few days. The urge usually passes, and that’s when I realize it wasn’t a real need and something else — boredom, insidious advertising, etc.


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Any meds that are out of pocket, I asked the doc to prescribe the generic ones


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– Taking advantage of residual heat when cooking saves me on gas and electricity.
– Learning how to make sauces (mostly for Asian dishes) and dressings from scratch.
– Not buying cleaning products for every part of the house. If you have bleach, dish soap, vinegar, and baking soda, you’re pretty much set for any mess in the house.
– Making a list of the dishes you most frequently make
– Setting a time limit for certain appliances. For instance, I’ll only turn on the TV after 7pm and I’ll try to towel dry my hair to keep hair dryer use at a minimum.


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I buy all my furniture and clothes (except underwear) in thrift stores.


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Some of these are kinda weird but here we go:

1) Get a bidet: it takes a little bit to get used to, but once you do, you’ll never feel cleaner. That and your TP will go a lot longer.

2) Get a bunch of old rags and wash & reuse them instead of paper towels or anything to wash your hands. You can usually find these cheap if you look around and will save you a ton of money in the long run compared to paper towels.

3) Costco Membership: costco is extremely brand conscious and their products are really high quality and depending on what you buy, can last you a considerable amount of time. More so, the buying in bulk helps out, their gas is noticeably cheaper than anywhere else, and their customer service and the way they treat their employees is light years ahead of any other retailer i ever dealt with.

4) Switch to LED bulbs – they last longer, are cost effective now to other lightbulbs and use a fraction of the energy so you save more money too.

5) Make sure you keep your tire pressure right and to also change air filters yourself. These seem like easy things to gloss over but will save you a ton of money on getting better gas mileage and also just saving you maintenance costs as well. Also, the air filter replacements at most garages cost for some reason way more than they should. Go on YouTube and you’ll find videos of how to do it, and you’ll be more well-rounded. It’s pretty dang easy.

6) Get sleep (and a good mattress if you can). I found i spend more money or dont function as good and spend more time on needless stuff/redoing things if im sleep deprived. Getting that good sleep is free and you’re health and happiness…..health is wealth!


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Budgeting with cash envelopes. Having a budget for everything has been the ultimate frugal hack. Do I want to spend my $60 food budget on a takeout dinner or go wild at an outlet store and get two weeks worth of food?


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Sharing streaming services with friends/library card (so easy to get, please just do yourself a favor and check out your library’s requirements).


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Buy good quality clothes, learned basic sewing and hemming to tailor them and look good. I air dry them and they look good for a long time.
Sometimes there are great sales on jeans that are too long for my size. I learned to sew a French hem to keep the original hem.


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Having spares. Took me a long time to get my wife to do this. You have a toothpaste, or a tin of coffee or whatever. The next time it goes on sale, you buy it, even if it’s next week. Then once you finish the first and open the second you watch for sales again.


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Cutting my sponges in half. There’s nothing a whole sponge can do that a half one can’t. It’s easily the most simple frugal thing I’ve done that literally doubled my life of a product.


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Definitely growing our own veggies and herbs! I dry the herbs and use all winter!


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This is more environmental than frugal, but I started using kitchen towels instead of paper towels for most tasks. A roll of paper towels used to last me two weeks. Now I buy a three pack once a year.


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I am dying my black clothes black, its great. The stuff looks like new, even though i had those short pants for 14 years


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I can’t stress this enough. Porridge for breakfast. It’s roughly €0.06 per person if you only added water and salt. With a little milk, fruit, and other toppings it can still be as little as €0.50 per person. Plus oats keep you full for a long time and are amazing for your health.

Here in Ireland a 1.5kg bag of rolled oats is €3. You don’t need to spring for expensive brand names. Any rolled oats will do.

Mix 0.5 cups of dry oats with 1.5 cups of any preferred liquid per person. Leave this mixture in a saucepan on medium heat and walk away for 15 to 20 minutes. Go take a shower. Get dressed, etc. Cooking oats slow gives them their creaminess. When you come back, give it a couple of stirs and add more liquid if you like a creamier consistency. Add your desired topping. And that’s it. Even plain salted porridge with a little bit of milk can be really delicious and very easy on the stomach. It’s actually really great hangover food.


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We keep two 5L bottles by the shower and fill them up before taking a shower so we aren’t wasting the running water while waiting for the water to be hot enough to shower. We then use this water to mop the floor and water plants. It has actually reduced our water bill quite a bit and helps us save water.


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Using curbside pickup through my local grocery store app. My account is connected, so I get points and can apply discounts from the ad. But the main takeaway is that I have removed all temptation to buy things I don’t need! It probably cut my grocery bill at least in half at this point.


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Woman here:
Menstrual cup a one time expense that may last for up to 10 years. I’ve had mine for 5 years and I really I had known about these since my early 20s.

Safety razor, I think I paid like $15 bucks for it and a 250 pack replacement razors. It’s been 5 years and still haven’t had to buy more.

Bonus is less stuff going to landfills.

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