In a relationship, financing is important. As you and your partner face the world, it’s wise to know how to save and use your resources optimally. Though sometimes, you may have a different idea about spending than your partner, and that leads to disagreement.
And disagreement is what the Redditor Dices1433 experienced with her boyfriend. According to her, she would sometimes pay for the expenses of her boyfriend’s children, which wasn’t a problem for her. The problem arose when he asked her for her bank account details when he thought of buying his son a gift.
OP knew well that she could just hand him the money, so she refused. Conflict ensued after that. The confused OP went to the Am I The A-Hole subreddit to ask internauts if she was in the wrong. Follow her full story below.
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This woman refused to give her boyfriend her personal bank account details, but he did not appreciate it
He took it seriously, leading to arguments
Image credits: Julia Taubitz (Not the actual photo)
Image credits: Dices1433
Redditors sided with OP. Their verdict: it was her boyfriend who was in the wrong
OP later made an update when she realized where her boyfriend intended to use her money